Validation and the Gospel Part 2

When I was a teenager, I only understood one part of repentance: I understood that following the Gospel means living according to the commandments, and that if we did not, then we should repent. We should seek to make our wrongs right, and where we cannot, then we should seek to live better and have faith that the Savior can heal the difference. In all cases, we should seek His forgiveness and work to live better.

Those principles helped me then and they still help me now, and attempting to live them has helped me learn another powerful truth: I can be better tomorrow than I am today. Not all changes happen overnight; perhaps none of the most important ones do, but trying to live the Gospel has helped me see that I have great potential as a child of God, and that I can be better every day.

Specifically, the process of trying to become a little better has showed me that I do not have to repeat the same mistakes indefinitely. It isn't "just how I am" unless I continue to make the same choices I have made in the past. I don't have to be angry and I don't have to be in pain if I can find the strength to choose differently. Repentance doesn't make it all easy, but over the years it has helped me see significant changes that make me happier with who I am. I'm grateful for these chances to continuously become a better version of myself.